Have you ever wondered, what is the meaning of your existence? It’s true we all exist. Now you need to do more than exist. The big question is: Do you live?
Most of us have the ultimate dream and fantasy of living happy forever. Nobody can live happy forever but you can make sure that you can live most of your live happy. Good days and bad days are essential necessity of life, but now its your choice to actually find a good positivist when bad things happen. You need to know that except your own thoughts you have absolutely nothing in your power.
When you give up doing the bad things, you will have more space for the things that make you happy. Here are 10 bad and devastating things you need to stop doing to yourself that will give you more room to convert your life and your needs. Do all you can to get rid of these bad things..
- Don’t stay away from your problems.
Face them and fight them. No, it is not easy. There is no single person in the world capable of handling an surviving every punch thrown at them. We are not meant to be able to solve our problems immediately. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we humans are actually designed or made to be sad, hurt, stumble and fall. That’s basically the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them as time goes on. This is what makes us become the people we become
#2. Don’t spend time with the wrong and valueless people.
Life is too precious and uncontrollably short to spend time with people who are valueless, not productive and suck the happiness out of you. People will make room for you if the want you in their life. You need not to fight for a spot. Do not ever insist or show yourself worthy to someone who always overlooks your worth. And always remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best or brightest, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true and valuable friends.
- Don’t keep a hold of the past.
You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading and going through your last ones.
- Don’t deceive and lie to yourself
This is the first and most difficult chance we must take. If you lie to any other person in the world the least person you should lie to is yourself
- Don’t claim to be someone you’re not.
This is one of the greatest challenges in life, trying to be yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be more beautiful, theres someone that will always be smarter, someone that will always be younger, but they can never be like you. Don’t change so people will like or admire you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
- Don’t put your own needs on the back burner or love too much.
The most devastating thing is losing yourself in the process of loving and caring for someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, assist others; but assist yourself too. If there was ever a moment to do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
- Don’t be scared to make a mistake.
Doing something and getting it all wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing absolutely nothing. Every success has a trail of failure behind it, and every failure is leading towards success, every NO leads to a YES. You usually end up regretting the things you did not do far more than the things you did.
- Don’t complain and feel sorry for yourself.
Life’s curveballs are thrown at you for a reason – to move your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not understand every single thing the moment it happens, and it may be tough and very difficult.
Reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that the will actually lead you to a better place, become a better person, better state of mind, or situation. So be happy! Let everyone know that today you are actually stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
- Don’t exclusively look to others for happiness.
If you’re not cool with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You must create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
- Don’t hold grudges.
Don’t live your life with hatred in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is cool.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the key… let go, find peace, free yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.